Fear of Success or Failure.
are you holding yourself back because of fear?
Have you come to realise that you are afraid of success or failure?
Many people have a subconscious fear of success and a conscious fear of failure.
The fear of failure is programmed in to use by society and education, we only get praise when we get the tick, and told well done.
So we have been conditioned to be something that is unrealistic and doomed to be non-workable. This realisation can be very useful as it gets you off the auto-pilot responses that up until now may have been holding you back.
If you look around you at anyone who has a high level of successes in life, in sports or singing or business, even relationships, you will notice that these highly successful people have failed a lot, they made a lot of mistakes, suffered injury, disappointment, defeat and loss in order to get to where they are.
Along the way, they also learnt to control the most important thing. Emotions and emotional responses.
They are not afraid to get it wrong, they are not scared to lose, they are not afraid to learn from mistakes and re-calibrate and attempt it again.
I helped a lady recently, an actress, she told me that to get to her level of skill, she had to practice for years, in fact, she has spent more time rehearsing than performing.
For a big show, they will rehearse for weeks to get as good as they can. Do they make mistakes ever night? Yes.
I have spent most of my life in the martial arts, Hapkido and judo. After 45 years I still practice the basics, a few times I have been perfect, exquisite and fabulous. I remember them all, I can count them on my fingers.
Many people, because of the anxiety they create themselves, never even attempt a venture, they talk themselves out of also starting. So the first thing that you have to do to overcome your fear of success or failure is to overcome your fear and realise that you will get things wrong, make lots of mistakes, will have to re-calibrate and learn lots of new things continuously.
Many people who say they want it, in fact, have realised that it is to much hard work and they don't want it badly enough. However, this may not be you.
If that is the case, and you want to cancel or control fear then at the bottom of this page are two influential self-hypnosis recordings that will assist you in turning off your irrational fears concerning your success. Many are silly because they are controlled by your subconscious control mind,
At an unconscious level, you may well have subconscious incongruence or secondary gain. All that means is that a part of your brain that controls your emotions, and feelings and is concerned with your survival thinks that it is safer to stop you from doing something.
So it will, as it is much stronger than you, and unless you know the techniques to change these subconscious patterns of behaviour gently, you get to keep them.
So if you would like to be more in control, have less fear, and increase your chances of success, get the mp3 recordings below.
Duncan McColl also created a fantastic recording. “Success” it is specifically designed to allow you to create this state of mind.
Often, due to our previous conditioning, we have been programmed with other peoples rules and definitions, that today is just unworkable. You may find that you are attempting to live by someone else's rules, instead of your own.
Remove Your Irrational Fears MP3. £15.00
You may also consider the MP3 Success. £15.00.